Build Resilience to Manage Stress and Change
Building mental resilience can help you handle stress and the ups and downs of life. That can lead to improved overall mental and physical health and a better quality of life.
Mental resilience is the ability to adapt to change, stressful situations, everyday problems, traumatic events and other types of adversity.
Strengthening mental resilience is a good place to start if you’d like to be a healthier you. It can help you adapt and respond when things go wrong. This inner strength can help you bounce back, rather than become totally overwhelmed. And it can be used for a range of setbacks, from sickness and loss to natural disasters.
Beyond adapting to hardship, resilience can help you build better mental health.
Resilience can help improve your ability to cope with mental health conditions like depression and anxiety. Resilience can also help you better manage factors that increase the risk of mental health conditions. “If you have an existing mental health condition, being resilient can improve your coping ability,” says the Mayo Clinic.
Building Blocks
There are many ways to build and maintain resilience.
Build strong relationships with family and friends. Consider volunteering in your community to gain supportive ties.
Look for meaning each day. Find ways to feel you have a purpose. Notice the ways you make a difference.
Learn from your life. Look back on how you've coped with past problems. Make a note of things that helped or hurt when you handled hardships in the past.
Look to the future. Expect change and stay hopeful.
Treat yourself right. Take care of your own needs and feelings. Do things you enjoy. Practice ways to handle stress. Find what works for you, be it prayer, deep breathing, meditation or other techniques.
Don’t brush off problems. Think over what needs to be done and start a plan of action.
Start Small
Taking small steps can sometimes make it simpler to get started. Mental Health America offers 31 simple ways to boost your mental health. You can do one per day. Among the ideas:
Use a journal to track three things you’re grateful for each day. And jot down something you accomplished while you’re at it.
Try something new. Be creative. And don’t worry about being good at what you try. Whether it’s crafting, painting, writing or trying a new recipe, trying new things can help give your outlook a boost.
Try a technology blackout. Put your phone down. Unplug from constant interruptions from texts and alerts.
Learn Relaxation Techniques
Being able to relax can help slow down your breathing, lower your blood pressure, and cut muscle tension and stress, says the National Library of Medicine. You can try progressive relaxation. That’s where you tighten and relax different muscle groups, sometimes combined with breathing exercises. Learning to focus on positive images in your mind is one more step you can take. Deep breathing exercises can also be helpful.
Involve the Family
The whole family can benefit from more resilience. Children often struggle during times of great change, such as during the COVID-19 pandemic, says the American Academy of Pediatrics. But that also makes it a good time to build up relationships and model ways to handle feelings.
Children and teens can better deal with school and other stress with these tips from the American Psychological Association. Have them try to:
Make connections
Help other people
Stick to a comforting routine
Focus on what they can control
Learn the value of basic self-care
Move toward a goal
Trust themselves
Keep things in perspective and stay hopeful
Accept change
Respect and learn about their feelings
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